Author: jeff perera
Since 2008, Jeff Perera been building bridges between people of all genders: having spoken to tens of thousands of people across North America about our ideas of manhood, gender and race, empathy-building, and men helping end gender-based violence. Whether in the boardroom, on campus, or the locker room: we need more examples of positive ways to be a man today. He is a storyteller inspiring new models of possibility for men and young men, and healthier versus harmful ideas of manhood where we work, live, play, worship or study. Jeff has delivered two TEDx talks: 'Words Speak Louder Than Actions' looking at the power of gendered words, and 'The Ladder of Manhood' which explores the male pursuit of identity and how too many men are fluent in a language of violence.
Jeff has delivered interactive talks for team leaders and groups of all genders, fields, creed and faiths within various organizations, conferences and spaces. Jeff’s work helps nurture brave spaces for real discussion: inspiring people to challenge our gendered ideas of success and failure, and to be the lesson in action. You can read written pieces, listen to podcast conversations, and watch interviews with Jeff over at HigherUnlearning.com, which is an online space exploring how limiting ideas of gender impact us all in everyday life.
What I Like and Don’t Like About Being a Boy: Thoughts from a group of Grade 4 Boys.
Consent: The conversation that we STILL need to urgently have.
Life after the Game Changer
COME AT ME BRO!! Men and Conflict Resolution
Why Bert’s not laughing: Homophobic Jokes about Bert and Ernie
Of Monsters and Elephants: Real Men from New Delhi, India to Steubenville, USA
What Drives Some Men to Massacre?
Blowing Minds
Can’t you take a joke?
Is Every Man a Castaway on their own Island?
Why Dudes need to be pissed off about Sexual Assault and Harassment (and Saveface)
Hip Checks and Gut Checks: How Homophobia impacts Heterosexual Male Athletes
Men & Grief: Staring Down the Eye of the Storm by Carlos Andrés Gómez
Wrong Fingers: Chris Brown is a Role Model alright…
Ripples of Change: Frank Ocean and reactions online
How Young Men Speak in a Language of Violence: ‘How to Fight’ by Carlos Andrés Gómez
Father Figures: A Song For You
Why She Walks, Why He Supports: The start of the Slutwalk Movement to help end Victim-Blaming
