Tagged with Manhood

Lost Boys

Lost Boys

Toronto was reeling after learning that the person arrested for sexually assaulting over a dozen women in a section of the city during the summer of 2012 was a 15 year old boy.  Jeff Perera looks back at an experience with two young boys on the train and reflects on what he wishes he said to … Continue reading »

Video footage of Tupac before his death!

Video footage of Tupac before his death!

Jeff Perera argues that the following video is actual footage of Tupac Shakur before he met his demise ** Many of us are familiar of this image of Tupac Shakur moments before he was fatally shot at 25 years of age. In the following excerpt, I explain how the video shown is footage of Tupac taken … Continue reading »

His Last Fight. Our Ongoing Work: Thank You Jack

His Last Fight. Our Ongoing Work: Thank You Jack

As we approach a year since Jack Layton died of cancer, Canadians remember his work and celebrate his life. Higher Unlearning shares Jeff Perera’s thoughts from last August when we lost Jack. My mom wasn’t a fan of the moustache.“Don’t like it” she’d say, “…he should shave it”. Upon his arrival to the national political stage … Continue reading »

Urban Behaviour = Urban Violent Behaviour

Urban Behaviour = Urban Violent Behaviour

Jeff Perera with a urgent call to action regarding choices we can make as retail consumers when it comes to messaging offensive and degrading to women as well as reducing men to act in a way that does not reflect the best of us.  . Enough. (Photo Courtesy of Stephen Hargreaves/The Lance)       Seriously… This … Continue reading »

Father Figures: A Song For You

Father Figures: A Song For You

 The first in a Higher Unlearning special series ‘Father Figures’ looking at the bond and special moments between children and their fathers & father figures.     Khaliyi Iloyi from London at the ripe age of 2 years old had a very special moment with London hip hop artist Alim Kamara in a freestyle session that warmed hearts … Continue reading »

Understanding Boys, Understanding Girls.

Understanding Boys, Understanding Girls.

— Invited to speak at various Boys conferences, Jeff Perera shares some stories of taking the White Ribbon message on the road to speak with boys from Grade Four to Grade Eight.  He also shares what happened when he spoke with hundreds of young girls on how society creates ideas of being a man and … Continue reading »

Scale

Scale

Image by Valentina Ramos Fear and Joy were having an argument In the kitchen of my heart Fear did not want to let Trust in Joy was convinced it was the right thing to do Fear wasn’t so sure Sadness pointed out how things like this tend to end up Trust waited patiently outside She … Continue reading »